Wedding day confirmed

Finally, got green light from mom and dad to go ahead with my wedding this year on
12 Dec, which means my wedding date will be 12/12/09, easy to remember, always remember 1212, no chance for my future wife to be angry if i forget my wedding anniversary, hehe, now planning our invitation list and final budgeting and waiting for the wedding counseling. We'll be renting a house first while waiting for the market to go from bad to worse for those property owners to throw price to purchase my dream house, hehe, no rush.

One thing i learnt since last year, no matter what objection/advice anyone gives, it all boils down to you, in the end, you live your own life, they will just talk and not be responsible to it, one may talk a whole of bullcrap and rubbish but in the end it's just talk.

Which reminds me of what Dr Jonathan said before, "Do not give counsel to those who are not prepared to follow" "and do not counsel if you have no intention to see through them"
It simply means responsibility in your words

The tongue is the human greatest weapon, a tongue can determine whether a nation will be at war or not

In the end, you choose,
Do you want to you your tongue to bless others? or curse others? your choice...